Let me ask you something before we get into all of this. Do you actually like the opposite sex? Not love in the way we perform it for the camera. Not the highlight reel we curate while the relationship is burning in the next room. I mean down in the body. In the quiet. Do you trust them? Do you feel safe with them? Do you believe, somewhere beneath all the strategy and the armor and the carefully managed distance, that they see you and mean you well? Take a second with that.
